The North Star Love Project Find your true direction in love

There's a kind of relationship that leaves you unsettled—not because it's always bad, but because it's never steady.

One moment they're all in. The next, they're gone. You're left holding the emotional weight, wondering what changed.

I know that place intimately. For years, I tried making almost-relationships work. I over-explained, over-functioned, and called it connection. All while bracing for the inevitable shift—the moment things would turn quiet, distant, unclear again.

Eventually, I stopped trying to fix what wasn't mine to carry. I started trusting what I'd sensed all along: This isn't what love is supposed to feel like.

That's why I created The North Star Love Project. Through 1:1 coaching and workshops, I help people break free from these cycles by recognizing patterns clearly and making different choices.

We slow everything down. We name what's real. And we rebuild trust in the one relationship that changes everything—the one with yourself.

Even if you've never experienced love that feels steady and mutual, you can learn to recognize it—and more importantly, you can learn to stop accepting anything less.

If you're tired of holding everything together, waiting for someone to finally show up fully, or making yourself smaller to keep the peace—this is where everything shifts.

This is about reconnecting with your North Star—your deepest values and intuition that guide you even when relationships feel chaotic. We'll illuminate the clarity that's already within you, beyond the tactical dating advice you've heard before.

I'm Thena. I created this experience for thoughtful people who still believe in finding their person. For those who know they want love that energizes rather than depletes—a connection that feels genuine and natural.

Why high level support matters

It’s when you stop settling for what almost works...and start saying: “I’m becoming someone I trust—and I’m building the kind of love that lasts.”

You don’t need another opinion—you need support that can hold the full complexity of what you're navigating.

High-level support means:

• You’re not being handed generic solutions.

• You’re being met with nuance, emotional intelligence, and someone who won’t flinch at the truth.

• You get a space where your inner conflict is taken seriously—and where clarity becomes possible.

• You walk away with real tools, direction, and the ability to trust your next steps.
  

It’s when you stop settling for what almost works…and start saying: “I’m becoming someone I trust—and I’m building the kind of love that is real and consistent.”

What it’s like to work with me.

My coaching is workshop-style—each session is focused, active, and designed to move you forward.

You’ll come in with something real: a moment that threw you off, a conversation you’re stuck on, a pattern you’re tired of repeating. We’ll work through it with tools, reflection, and strategy—so you leave feeling clearer, stronger, and more like yourself. You’ll leave with something that clicks. Something you can actually use.

I’m here to help you make real changes—with honest work, steady support, and a pace that honors your emotional rhythm and what’s real for you.

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